Aigo

Ok soo, it looks like solved.
As you told me yesterday on pm; i decid to try using mysql55 instead mysql56. Soo, just followed these instruction:
Remove mysql8.x or other if you installed... pkg install mysql55-server rename/delete the default /var/db/mysql folder service mysql-server stop upload and extract the mysql folder to /var/db with tar -xf xymsql.tar.gz ( tar -xf did not work to me. So i used tar -zxvf ) service mysql-server start (after this i had to make a reboot because navicat was showing old data, idk)  
Also i had to edit ports on client files. Did not touch any ports from server side. Now the serverinfo.py looks like this.
PORT_1 = 13002 PORT_2 = 13010 PORT_3 = 13020 PORT_4 = 13030 PORT_AUTH = 11000 PORT_MARK = 13001  
By now everything works fine. If want i can make a guide on how to install 40k reference files on a clean VPS. I can write it and send it to you soo you can improve or solve any mistake. 
 
Thaanks!
Just reinstalled mysql using 55 instead 56. Solved, thank you!